Left Alone !

The most terrible poverty is loneliness, and the feeling of being unloved. -  Mother Theresa
 

Loneliness in my opinion is one of the most painful emotional suffering any human being can endure. Knowing that there will never be a cure to it, can be one of the devastating revelation one can even circumvent. Needless to say that it is a normal part of our feelings and not all feelings are ever accurately true. Some of us, I know I have tried ways to avoid that kind of feeling, whether it be being around people, to doing productive things around the house, being with my family and friends. You can try substituting it with a habit or even a bad vice.

There is absolutely nothing wrong to being lonely at times. People have tried to analyze why reasons people go through a stages of loneliness, but can never come to an understanding of it. It can be a weakness to be so lonely that we can tend to be depressed about it. If you are lonely we tend to focus more on all the negative things we have. Whether thinking about how come we are not like other people who does certain things that we admire or even start thinking how we don’t like ourselves that much at all. Thoughts have a way of just coming through our brain and we can go so far as to travel back to our past and even think about regrets, to choices we have made that we go so far to the future that we can over think ourselves on worry.

I believe yes, we desperately need others in our life. To feel loved, admired, adored, accepted. We may do things to comfort us, help others and feel good about the things we have done for them. In reality in my opinion, nothing can really substitute God’s love for you. You can be rich, and be emotionally, mentally, and physically healthy but if you don’t feel loved. If you feel depressed and make all the excuses on why you may feel lonely. Then yes, we can’t experience the peace and love that is already there given by God.It’s a good practice, to just replace every negative thought with a positive one. If you feel lonely, depressed and think about all the things you don’t have. We need to remember that you are not alone. Every trial you face and endure you should enjoy and celebrate that you know you will pass this. You are not alone in this pain, because God is with you. You may feel desperate to get love, through going from relationship to another, replacing that love from buying so many things, keeping busy to try and not think about the pain.Take for instance a good example of this, my blog. This to me is an escape knowing that trying to work out my own loneliness, and pain. I am replacing the hurt by trying to help others, hoping that at least even 1 out of a million or trillion people in the world can somehow read this, and can just be comforted that what ever you are going through you are not alone. I am focused on trying to heal myself but at the same time trying to help others. I know to a degree that it may not be the right way of doing because of course we may only help others once we fully have helped ourselves.

To have hope, love within yourself no matter what your situation or circumstance are currently. Knowing that everything in life is not going to be permanent. Even if you can make choices to go where you want to go, you may feel disappointment if your life because life changes so radically. But if you develop thoughts that are not positive or feel low to the grown. Pull yourself up and be determined to change not for anyone else but yourself. You deserve the best for your life. Even if you feel no one loves you, you are not alone. The point is that your thoughts does not have to be right. Feelings are feelings but we need not try to agree with it. You are loved by God.